husband

Very important advice for Hebrew Israelite men!


A good husband


PRACTICAL BEHAVIOUR


Be the number one leader of your household in following Yahusha.


Ask your woman for advice (she is your helper)


Every day be attractive for your woman.


Keep your woman holy; fullfil her needs/desires willingly, lest she be tempted into sin easily.


Daily loving physical contact without her asking for it.


Have your finance and administration in order


Avoid debts


Communicate the family plans every day


Discuss everything, but make the decisions


Give your woman finances for herself (according to your budget)


Daily ask your woman if there is something you can help her with. (humbleness)


Work hard and be diligent


Be hospitable and friendly


Make your own money and discuss with your woman how to spend the money; but make the final decision.


Read a lot


Surprise your woman with something that she likes.


Take good care of yourself, children and everyone around  you (food, exercise, hygiene, be as natural as possible).


Be nice, friendly, honest and polite.


Do not misabuse your authority as leader of the house; do not ask/require to much.


Do not scream, do not curse, do not be aggressive


Apologize regularly: do not be too proud for it.


Evaluate your behavior on a daily basis according to the bible.


Make sure everybody speaks positive about you; including your enemies.


Be faithful; do not flirt. only talk business (serious marriage conversations)

SCRIPTURES


Ex.21:10-11

If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

And if he do not these three unto her, then shall she go out free without money.


Joshua.1:8

This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.


Joshua.24:15

And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.


1Pet.3:7

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.


1 Tim.5:8

But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.


Eph.5:25-33

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.


Col.3:19

Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.


1Cor.7:3

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.


Eph.4:32

And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.


Heb.13:4

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.


Ps.119:9

BETH. Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.


Mat.22:37-40

Yahusha said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.

This is the first and great commandment.

And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.


Ecclesiasticus / Sirach 7:19

Forego not a wise and good woman: for her grace is above gold.


Ecclestiasticus 7:26

Hast thou a wife after thy mind? forsake her not: but give not thyself over to a light woman.


Ecclesiasticus 9: 1-9

Be not jealous over the wife of thy bosom, and teach her not an evil lesson against thyself.

Give not thy soul unto a woman to set her foot upon thy substance.

Meet not with an harlot, lest thou fall into her snares.

Use not much the company of a woman that is a singer, lest thou be taken with her attempts.

Gaze not on a maid, that thou fall not by those things that are precious in her.

Give not thy soul unto harlots, that thou lose not thine inheritance.

Look not round about thee in the streets of the city, neither wander thou in the solitary place thereof.

Turn away thine eye from a beautiful woman, and look not upon another's beauty; for many have been deceived by the beauty of a woman; for herewith love is kindled as a fire.

Sit not at all with another man's wife, nor sit down with her in thine arms, and spend not thy money with her at the wine; lest thine heart incline unto her, and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction.


Ecclesiasticus 25:21

Stumble not at the beauty of a woman, and desire her not for pleasure.


Ecclesiasticus 28:25 

And weigh thy words in a balance, and make a door and bar for thy mouth. 


Ecclesiasticus 32:8 

Let thy speech be short, comprehending much in few words; be as one that knoweth and yet holdeth his tongue. 


Ecclesiasticus 25:22

A woman, if she maintain her husband, is full of anger, impudence, and much reproach.


Ecclesiasticus 25:25

Give the water no passage; neither a wicked woman liberty to gad abroad.


Ecclesiasticus 25:26

If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go.